Wednesday, May 18, 2016

National Police Week

As many of you may know, this is National Police Week.  Law Enforcement officers are very near and dear to my heart and, as such, I wanted to share a few thoughts:

Some know a lot about the Law Enforcement community, some know very little, and a lot believe they know more than they actually do…

“There are too many cops!”
The population of the United States is currently ~320 million.  The number of sworn police officers in the USA is about 900,000.  Or .0028 of the population. 

“Cops are dumb!  And overpaid too!”
An estimated ½ of the departments in the USA require a degree to be a Police Officer while the other half don’t.  Neither half has a starting pay commiserate with the job responsibilities.  In the state of Tennessee the average starting salary for a sworn police officer is $37,000, and that includes the “higher” paid major metropolitan areas.  For most places in Tennessee that looks more like $29,000-$31,000.

“Police Officer deaths are just a right wing media myth!”
On average, 165 police officers die in the line of duty every year in the United States.  

To give some small bit of perspective, since 2001 there have been ~2,250 Americans killed in Afghanistan.  During that same time period ~2,375 law enforcement officers have been killed in the US.

The average age of a slain officer is 39.

There are 20,789 names carved into the National Law Enforcement Officers Memorial walls.

That’s not to mention that fact that Law Enforcement Officers have over double the rate of “depressive symptoms” and that’s only counting what’s reported.  One of the great threats to the Law Enforcement community is the fact that things like depression and stress are seen as ‘weakness’ and/or ‘part of the job’ and so _Very_ few actually report, which makes that percentage even more staggering.

Then you also have that officers have a higher risk of coronary events than other professions, almost 60% of officers have higher than recommended cholesterol levels, and nearly all, on average, have higher pulse rates and higher diastolic blood pressure.

“But they signed up for it!”
Now, there’s something we can agree on.  They did.  They chose it.  You know what, some go in ignorant and cavalier, but most know about those above statistics.  They know they have a much higher risk of death, they know that, statistically speaking, their marriage has a much lower chance of survival.  They even know (or come to understand quickly) that they will be vilified, blamed, feared, and hated.  
But they signed up anyway.  
They report back to the line anyway.  
They choose it, everyday. 

Are their corrupt police officers? 
Officers who hide behind a badge and a gun so they can live out their fantasies of grandeur? You bet.  Just like there are teachers, firefighters, bank tellers, and preachers who do the same.  
But the overwhelming majority do it for you.  
For the ones who don’t thank them, for the ones who hide behind keyboards so they can live out their fantasies of grandeur, for the ones who hate them and teach others to hate them.  

Law Enforcement shows up for work everyday to get spit on and ridiculed, and put under a microscope, and investigated, and shot at because they don’t do it for the thanks; if they did, they wouldn’t show back up!

Law Enforcement officers put on their hot, cheaply made, ill fitting uniforms, drape on their cheapest available body armor, buckle up their 35 pound work belts, and lace up their 10 pound dress shoes that they have to wear to stand, run, crouch, crawl, and fight in because they view it (rightfully so) as a calling.  

Just as a teacher or a preacher, police officers are choosing an often times thankless ministry.

You’re dang right:  They signed up for it.  
And I, for one, want to say Thank you.


Tuesday, February 16, 2016

Honoring Marriage

This past Sunday I was fortunate enough to get to preach.  It was Valentine's day and I decided to do a sermon on honoring marriage.

We focused on encouraging marriages, building up spouses, singles, parents, kids, divorcees, single parents, etc.

We tried to examine our roles in honoring our own marriage and in honoring the marriages around us - because ALL marriages should be held in great honor, esteemed is highly valuable, and made to be our focus... our treasure.


https://youtu.be/ax7jU9c-NA8?t=7s

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

Identity sermon series

Below I'm going to link the 3 videos from my "Identity" series that I used to kick us off for the new year.

1:  Identity in the New Year:  Resolutions



2:  Identity in Christ:  Rock or sand




3:  Self Identity:  Your thoughts vs. God's thoughts

Monday, December 14, 2015

2015 Top 12 Best Christmas music videos!

I love music.  I have a song in my head at all times.  All times.

I listen to almost every genre out, ones that could never mix, my playlists look like 100 different people from teen to 100 years old all threw their favorites together.  Classic rock, alternative, Contemporary Christian, rap, hymns, hiphop, classical, country, rock, barbershop, I can listen to (almost) anything.

Ironically, I was never really a fan of Christmas music ("Gasp!") but once you have kids, everything changes, including my taste in Christmas music!

So, for this Christmas I've compiled my top 12 Christmas music videos.

My parameters were pretty simple, but one important aspect was that it had to have an actual video (lyric 'videos' don't count), and a video that was equally as powerful as the song itself (so be sure to Watch and not just listen!).
Also, if at all possible, it had to be a live performance (9 out of the 12 are live I believe).
Also, the number 1 video is a bonus, of sorts: it's not technically traditional "Christmas" song, but it definitely deserves to be on the list!  Don't miss the spoken-word poem in the middle... it will blow you away!

*Disclaimer:  I could have easily made all 12 Pentatonix or all Lindsey Stirling videos... Love all of them... but I limited them to 2 and 1, respectively!

Here we go (I hope you enjoy!):

12.  Alison Krauss and Robert Plant - "Light of Christmas Day"

11.  Chris Tomlin - "A Christmas Alleluia"

10.  "Come Thou Long Expected Jesus"

9.    Christmas Food Court Flash Mob - "Hallelujah Chorus"

8.    Pentatonix - "Silent Night"

7.    Som Sabadell Orchestra Flash Mob - "Ode to Joy"

6.    Lindsey Stirling - "What Child is This?"

5.    Cloverton - "A Hallelujah Christmas"

4.    Pentatonix - "Joy to the World"

3.    Lauren Daigle - "Noel"

2.    CeeLo Green - "Mary Did You Know?"

1.    Kari Jobe - "Forever" 

Friday, October 9, 2015

All Point to Christ (from the beginning)



Jesus didn't come into existence in a manger in Bethlehem.  Jesus wasn't created at Mary's conception.  Jesus has always been.  Jesus is The Word, the Angel of the Lord, and Jesus has no beginning, just as the Father has no beginning, just as the Spirit has no beginning.  Jesus was there at creation.

Don't miss the significance of this nor shortchange the true nature of the Trinity.

Genesis 1:1-2 and John 1:1-5

Wednesday, September 23, 2015

Why is church the first thing to get "cut"?



Parents: 
We can't say we want our kids around positive role models, that we want them to have a Christian peer group, that we want their influences to be focused on Jesus, and that we want the church family to be important to them - and trade youth group activities for sports, Wed nights for dates and homework, Sunday school for extra sleep, and church for ball tournaments. 

Our lives, as parents, are hard, CRAZY, and over scheduled, but when we use our words to tell our kids that our church family is what's most important and then when things get busy and we get tired church family is the first thing we cut.... believe me, they know. They get the message. 

We as parents are the front line for our kids, but we have to surround our kids with additional Christian influences and role models so they can make meaningful relationships with those people we want mentoring them someday when they "need" someone else to turn to other than us. 
 

Friday, September 18, 2015

Parenting, marriage, Christianity.... they're all Hard.

Parenting is hard. 

Marriage is hard. 

Christianity is hard. 

Truth be told, Anyone who tells you differently is lying or has something to sell.  

The "life is easy", "God just wants you to be Happy", "marriage is always bliss", "parenting is only wonderful", "prosperity gospel" theologies are all lies from the very pit of hell.

You want to know what parenting, marriage, and Christianity all have in common?  They All require selfish, egotistical, self centered people (ie all of humanity) to act in a way completely contrary to their very nature.  In parenting, marriage, and Christianity we are required to put other's thoughts, feelings, emotions, wants, and needs ahead of our own. Period.  

"Yeah, but They deserve" grace.
"They're not even sorry!" forgive them anyway.
"They started it" and you can end it.
"They hurt me so bad" don't pass it on (or back)

I don't know about you (actually... I think I do) but I'm pretty terrible at this. 
Loving those who hate me is not my strong suit.  Showing patience to a disobedient child isn't "blissful".  Putting my wife's feelings ahead of mine when I don't think she's putting mine ahead of her's isn't "bliss" (though I assure you those roles are typically reversed I'm sure).  Being the light in a dark world when my nature is either to throw darkness back or to take my little candle and go huddle up in the corner by myself is not easy.  Or natural.  or easy.  or easy.  or easy.

BUT

God loves you anyway. Love people anyway. People love you anyway. Love yourself anyway.